Hey, no one can really get into the brain of a man. We are warned to not venture there but I had to know what my man is thinking about every day. So I asked a couple of men what are you all thinking about when you have that pensive face. I get bothered when I see my husband silent and thinking hard because I don’t know what he’s thinking about. I want to know!
Anyway, I was so curious I just had to know what my man is thinking and here’s what I found out. Men usually think about these four things. Not every man is the same but not in any particular order, here are some things they think about:
This one is kind of obvious but it’s not thought about like how movies play it to be. It’s not always first on their mind but it’s important. Men do think about sex but in different agendas like when’s the next time I’m going to have sex with my girl? Will it be satisfying for my her? They may even plan to have sex to relieve stress and/or to sleep better.
Money, money, money. Men think about money. It’s all about the money. Am I making enough money? Can we afford our bills or what can I do with our money? Those are just a few money thoughts in your man’s head.
Men think about the future and their futures. What’s gonna happen tomorrow? How about in 5 years? When am I going to have kids? Am I prepared for Armageddon? They are thinking about the next day and if they are ready to conquer it. Your husband could be thinking about his business goals, and family goals.
From what is God going to do next to is there a God up there? Men do think about purpose and reason for living. Some put this first and others last but it is there.
So while you may be frustrated that your man thinks too much, don’t fret. They’re usually good things! Follow @trudotworks on Twitter for more tips!
Yessenia Diaz has a background in graphic and web design but is also intrigued by writing and teaching. Yessenia created Tru.Works as an outlet for all her talents and continues collecting stories from around the world to share with people all across the interweb. Follow Yessenia on Instagram and her favorite, Twitter, @ythegreatdiaz.