A Real Boyfriend

A real boyfriend calls you for nothing, texts you all the time, wants to see you, cries, gets jealous, is over protective and, loves you.

Really, ladies?

This above quote is one of these quotes  women read on the internet and spread the image on Instagram or Twitter which confuses ladies. They start to question their relationship and it usually makes them feel like they deserve better. Don’t believe everything image shared on social media.  

Obviously the above quote is speaking about the beginning of a relationship. The first stage where you can deal with certain things your partner does or doesn’t do. You try not get each other angry and brush off nuisances and so the above quote stands for you. The goal for the both of you right now is to get to know each other. Most people don’t know that this beginning stage only lasts about 3 months.

The lovey-dovey stage of a new couple only lasts for up to the first 3 months. After the first 3 months of the relationship the next three are where you both get comfortable and start noticing the quirks and annoyances of each other. You are more yourself and there are more arguments because you don’t suck up as much as you did in the beginning.

With all these arguments it doesn’t mean you break up. It means you work at understanding each other. You won’t be texting each other all time anymore because you’ll be more involved in each others lives. That’s a great thing!

Your relationship won’t be a fairytale but you can still have fairytale moments. Just remember you both are evolving and are more a part of each other’s lives everyday than you were before.

In the end your love will blossom as trust and respect grows.

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