In no particular order, a man has 5 basic needs. I have learned this through reading many books and only one book has captured this perfectly. “His Needs, Her Needs” by Dr. Willard Harley Jr. I suggest buying this book for a more in-depth explanation of a man and a woman’s needs. Click here to purchase the book.
If you don’t know these, you will always find yourself in failed relationships left and right. Remember every man is different, he might need more of number 5 than 2.
A man needs to have sex. Not cumbersome sex but real sex. He’d rather have less fun sex than more boring sex.
Does your husband play guitar? Go to his shows. Does your boyfriend love basketball? Learn how to play or watch. Just be there, or someone else will. The more you go the better. The day you dont want to go it won’t be a big deal.
An Attractive Spouse
You wake up in pajamas and stay in pajamas all day? Dress up girl, it’s fun and a man wants to show off his hot girl not his pajama girl.
Men are very picky with who they have children with. Unless the accidentally get you pregnant. So be a mom. Clean, cook, stop medicating yourself and be a mom. He’ll take you more serious and will know you are fit to care for his kids. Of course he can help too.
This is one need where some men may deny they need but they do. It’s funny but when you start this he will change. Admiring him is when you start telling him things like he’s a hard worker, strong, intelligent and sexy. Little things that boosts his confidence. I like to tell my man he’s hot.
If you don’t want to do these things than stay single. This is for people who have marriage on the mind. Don’t forget you have needs too. This is just the beginning to fixing up your relationship. If this has changed your relationship tweet us at @trudotworks.
Yessenia Diaz has a background in graphic and web design but is also intrigued by writing and teaching. Yessenia created Tru.Works as an outlet for all her talents and continues collecting stories from around the world to share with people all across the interweb. Follow Yessenia on Instagram and her favorite, Twitter, @ythegreatdiaz.