Look, it’s tough to find someone that you can even imagine sucking up being with “forever”. Sometimes you may feel as if any person will do but is that really enough? Do you really just want to get with anyone?
There are so many losers out there. By losers I mean losers who are selfish and mean people. They take advantage of you and use you and your heart to get everything they can out of you. They suck up attention, money, and time and in the end waste your life. Do you have the wisdom to see this before it’s too late?
These people haven’t opened their eyes yet and we ask of you to use wisdom and discern who is worth your time. Look, if you want to be with someone for fun then tell them and have “fun”. Don’t take advantage of someone who wants something more serious.
For the person who wants something more serious, don’t get with just anyone. Don’t marry just anyone. Just because he kind of is a gentlemen does not mean you should marry him. Push him to be a complete gentlemen and teach him how to be a husband. Just because she is alright and better than most girls does not mean you should settle.
Set your standard high. Shoot for the moon and if the land among the stars they can still head for the moon. Choose someone honest, faithful and loving. If your significant other has an attitude problem, tell them to change their face. Don’t be scared. Set your standard.
If your standard is high for them than you should act with a high standard yourself as well. If you want your woman or man to greet you when you come home from work then you should do the same with her. If you want your man to dress up or have better hygiene then you should too. Do not become a hypocrite.
Don’t be ridiculous and ask for things that are far out like, you have to kiss me every time I finish cooking or we have to have sex Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Be reasonable and forgive each other when you both mess up.
Finally, don’t settle for just anyone and have a low standard. Give yourself some type of worth and settle for a long time lover.