How to Get a Girl to Like You

Staring that girl down won’t get her to like you kid.

How to Get a Girl to Like You
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No matter how much you look she doesn’t speak your language. She speaks female and you my friend are a male. Luckily for you, I can take you into the female mind so that you can get this woman to at least look at you.

These tips are not for a guy that’s looking to hit it and quit. These are tips to get into a serious relationship. If you use these for the wrong reason that is manipulation and that’s evil, and now tips:

You have to introduce yourself to her life someway and it’s easier than you think. You can sit down at lunch with her, have your sister befriend her (that’s what happened to me) or hang out after school.

If she does track and field meet her on the field. If she’s by her locker that’s where you introduce yourself. Get noticed by her and befriend her, shortly she will start to take notice of you.

At the gym, you could invite her to a local yoga or kickboxing studio if she’d like to try something new than just cardio or weights.

If you see her at a coffee shop, ask her what she drank and share with her your actual place favorite place to get coffee. Be yourself, and befriend the girl. Don’t go right into hitting on her. It can be uncomfortable.

Again, just be her friend. Don’t ask her out or compliment her physical beauty, just befriend her. This is how you can get to know her more deeply and establish a friendship, which is a better basis for a relationship than mere physical attraction.

One of the major needs of a woman is communication and so you must talk to this lady whenever you have the opportunity to do so. For women, talking means connection.

Don’t forget that it’s also important to listen to the girl without imagining other things. Take a genuine interest in her goals and boundaries. The more conversations you have with the girl of your dreams the more she’ll open up.

If she ends up talking about problems at home women generally, don’t need advice unless we ask for it we just want to be heard.

Soon enough you’ll learn her own set standards and boundaries.

She’ll share her standards of marriage, sex, family, relationships, work, education and you’ll be able to understand the kind of woman you have befriended.

You will most definitely gain a friend.

If her standards are too high for you can move on peacefully. Don’t even consider trying to convince her to bring her standards down because you will convince her to change who she is. You’re just not the man for her and that’s okay.

Respect her boundaries and that is the biggest action of appreciation you can do for a woman. When you respect her boundaries you translate back to her that you care for her more than a regular dude will.

You’re obviously not a regular dude if you’ve come across this article and a special man like you needs a spectacular woman and that takes time to find.

It took my husband and me almost 2 years of friendship before we started dating but he knew my standards were high and I knew his standards matched mine. We laughed and shared memories and time together and fell in love. He was stuck in the friend zone for 2 years and never gave up and today is married to me, his wife, the mother of his children and best friend due to his perseverance.

I thank him for that because I would be dating an idiot if it wasn’t for him.

Yessenia Diaz has a background in graphic and web design but is also intrigued by writing and teaching. Yessenia created Tru.Works as an outlet for all her talents and continues collecting stories from around the world to share with people all across the interweb. Follow Yessenia on Instagram and her favorite, Twitter, @ythegreatdiaz.

1 Comment

  1. Dave Harvey
    October 26, 2015

    Thank you for this awesome article Yessenia, it was very informative. I’m almost 26 and waiting for the day the Lord brings me and my soulmate together. I have never dated or had a girlfriend in my life. Thinking about it always brought confusion and fear on how I would even start. This helps a lot for the future.

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