You just finished watching your car get towed right in front of you. Right before that, you got in an accident and you have no clue how you’re going to get home. Those are the worst days. What’s worse is that on a bad day you never have one thing happen to you. It’s always multiple negative events in one day.
Declaring your day to be a great day is easier said than done. You have to remind yourself to be able to do that every day.
You must not focus on your debt but instead focus on a positive bank account and checks coming in the mail. You must be grateful for what you do have so that more great things will enter your life.Instead of thinking about the pain in your leg, think about how healthy you are otherwise. Instead of thinking about hate, think about the love that this world does have.
Instead of thinking about how crappy your apartment is right now, think about how amazing the next one is going to be. Imagine yourself sitting in the chair you want and cooking in the kitchen of your dreams.
Imagine how wonderful your relationship is. Don’t sulk on the rough patches. Why focus on the negative at all? If you’re going to be thinking anything at all, focus on the good!
Where you are today was because of the decisions you made in your life. What decision will you make today that can totally change your tomorrow?
Change the way you think. Think about the good and not the bad. It can be so difficult to d so but in doing so you will prevent worse things from happening to you. This is the law of the universe. It works! The hardest part is to retrain our minds to think better thoughts.
We must begin by thinking better thoughts about ourselves and who we are, the people around us and what we have. We must be grateful for what we have and expect better things to come as we continue our lives.
Once we begin this cycle of good thoughts we can reap good things because we sowed them.
I know that with practice your days will get better. Even if today was the worst day you could have ever had, it can get worse. Reverse that thinking and think about the good that happened to you that day as hard as it is and watch your day turn around. Think about the safety of your children, your spouse, your job, and anything else that you can think of that’s a blessing to you to change your day around.
I know you can do it, it’s in you. It’s in all of us.