So many women believe that men communicate and understand them exactly the same way women understand and communicate with each other. They believe that men should understand what they mean or why we, women, are angry with them.
How many men have heard the good old saying:
You should know why I’m mad
Unfortunately, too many men have heard this. They are left behind pondering for hours or days on what they could have possibly done to hurt you. Guessing can only get you more angry and so why even take a guess with this women? So until you say anything men have no idea why you’re mad at them and won’t take a chance to figure it out because your attitude is ridiculous.
Number 1: He doesn’t know why you are mad
Once you understand that he does not know why you’re mad at him and never will you can communicate with him better. Even if he may know why you’re mad at him he is not going to want to take a guess and so if you just suck it up and spill it then you can both move forward faster.
Number 2: Stop getting angry over little things
Stop making a big deal about little things. Choose to enjoy your day and brush things off. Yes, he may have done something insensitive but that doesn’t mean you should be angry about it. Lear and practice to calm down and talk about things without an attitude.
Number 3: Stop being so wretched
Your attitude can make a man shut himself out or have him pour out his should to you. If you’re always moody or angry you will find that your man will hide a lot of things from you. He can’t be his true self with you because you always have something to say. He wants to be respected and not judged all the time.
Ladies, learn to calm down and to let your man breathe. If you have him walking on glass all the time, eventually he will move on. Men, teach your women these things so that she can understand you better.